Let not the differences between your parent and their siblings hinder your love and respect for your aunts and uncles. They deserve your love and respect irrespective of their equation with your parents and it is your duty too. Listen to your parents if they have any grievances and empathize but do not let it take over you and reach out to your cousins without any prejudice in mind, if you feel they need your moral support … that’s a life lesson.

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